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'A friend we can always go to': 萌妹社区 mentorship program brings lasting alumni, student trio together

By Perry King
October 14, 2020
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Retired teacher Cam Kilgour and his partner taught at the Phaung Daw Oo Monastery School in Myanmar earlier this year. This school year, Kilgour is a mentor to two 萌妹社区 students. Courtesy Cam Kilgour.

The 萌妹社区 Mentorship Program is one of the Institute鈥檚 more popular and fast-growing programs. With nearly 600 student and alumni participants this year, the mentorship program is devoted to creating meaningful connections between alumni mentors and student mentees 鈥 across 25+ different areas in education. With an annual launch event for participants to meet for the first time, followed by a series of mentorship 鈥渉ow-to鈥 workshops, seminars and resource packages, participants are encouraged to meet, chat, collaborate or job shadow often and by any means they鈥檙e comfortable 鈥 whether it鈥檚 in person or online.

萌妹社区 News wanted to explore the strengths of the program and how it has fostered relationships between many in the community. This story is the first in a series, where we meet mentors and mentees and the ties that bind them.

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The bond between Cam Kilgour, Shanelle Henry and Vivian Hoang is made strong by the 萌妹社区 Mentorship Program, but the threads that brought them together can potentially make them unbreakable.

Kilgour, a now-retired teacher, came to the program with a passion to help others. After a short stint practicing immigration law, he realized that education was a more effective way to make a difference. 鈥淭he reason for the switch is I thought, given my personality, I would have more impact as a teacher than as a lawyer,鈥 he said.

His education journey is a global one, with teaching and learning stints in Bhutan, Myanmar and Australia (he鈥檚 also taught in the Toronto District School Board). On that journey, and now in retirement, Kilgour found that social and emotional learning was crucial to a child鈥檚 education.

In recent years, he came to volunteer with Friendship in Action, a charity that collaborates with the TDSB to run a peer support program 鈥 one that helps students facing pressures to identify their feelings, share their experiences, and develop strong emotional skills.

Coincidentally, Kilgour introduced Henry and Hoang to Friendship in Action and they have all taken part in its program in some way. Henry, for example, observed one of their clinical group meetings.

鈥淚 think I can learn so much from Vivian and Shanelle 鈥 through their studies, through their interests, through their insights,鈥 said Kilgour, who joined the mentorship program in 2019.

Henry, a fourth-year doctoral candidate in school and clinical child psychology, was excited to learn of Kilgour鈥檚 experiences. 鈥淚鈥檝e learned a lot about how we can use the education landscape as a way to facilitate mental health and social emotional learning,鈥 she said.

With the end of her formal education nearing, Henry has been building expertise. She has been working in clinical research, but has completed school psychology placements within the TDSB. She certainly has a deep interest in education, as well.

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Shanelle Henry is studying school and clinical child psychology. Her mentor Cam Kilgour, a retired teacher, gives her insights on child development in the classroom through the 萌妹社区 Mentorship Program.

鈥淚鈥檝e been interested in the education field and how we can support children's mental health in education,鈥 says Henry, who is also a psychometrist for the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health. 鈥淲hat鈥檚 nice about 萌妹社区 is that the alumni have so many capacities. And when I heard about the mentorship program, I was just interested in maybe meeting an alumni and seeing where the alumni are going forth and working.鈥

Kilgour has been a fantastic mentor for Henry. Above all, she says that he has been open 鈥 with his advice, time, resources. She recalls that he introduced her to another mentee of his, a doctoral student involved with Friendship in Action, that has really added value to her time there. 鈥淗e's quite flexible with his time 鈥 even throughout the pandemic,鈥 she said.

鈥淚t鈥檚 also quite nice having a second student. Vivian comes more from the education side of things and it鈥檚 been nice to also get her perspective and meet as a group.鈥

Hoang, a second-year masters student in the department of curriculum, teaching and learning, praises Kilgour鈥檚 tutelage and Shanelle鈥檚 perspective in the early years of her professional development. 鈥淚t feels like I have a friend I can always go to in terms of asking about education relevant in Toronto, because I'm still not very familiar with it,鈥 says Hoang, a native of Calgary, Alta.

鈥淲ith Shanelle, she鈥檚 been great because I鈥檝e always been interested in psychology,鈥 added Hoang, who is currently in Calgary. 鈥淏ut it鈥檚 a very unfamiliar world. It鈥檚 good to get her perspective on things here and there.鈥

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Vivian Hoang, a masters student in the deparment of curriculum, teaching and learning, says she really enjoys her mentor Cam Kilgour and fellow student mentee Shanelle Henry's insights and company as she becomes more familiar with Toronto.

Hoang鈥檚 focus within the Language and Literacies Education program is focused on ESL education 鈥 as a native Cantonese speaker who experienced ESL classrooms and curricula, she loves connecting with non-native speakers. With Kilgour鈥檚 experience teaching abroad, Hoang has appreciated his insights into that world.

鈥淵eah, I just wanted someone I could reach out to whenever I had a question. I don't have too many questions now because there鈥檚 no opportunity to look for work for me at the moment being in Calgary,鈥 she said. 鈥淏ut when I do start job searching, or I have questions while I am teaching, I know I have Cam to reach out to."

鈥淚t鈥檚 nice to have like a long-term friendship with someone before entering a school 鈥 and establishing different relationships. But, right now, I feel I鈥檓 very happy with this pairing."

Ultimately, she really enjoys Kilgour鈥檚 and Henry鈥檚 company. The pandemic has kept the trio apart but their bond is strong as ever.

鈥淗e鈥檚 been very on top of the news. He's like a very woke old person,鈥 Hoang says, laughing. 鈥淏efore, we were talking about like Black Lives Matter and the Asian discrimination that鈥檚 happening in the States right now, he鈥檚 always up with news and he's always giving us resources."

鈥淚n fact, I think he's more up to date than we are because sometimes I get lost in school and he鈥檚 feeding us with the news. And I really enjoyed that. It shows us that he's, you know, actually very genuine and he鈥檚 very involved.鈥

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